If I recall, this is before an epsom soak last night. There is some pus that's come out.

Again, if I recall, and judging by the time stamps, this will have been after the soak...

In the morning, there was solid orangish and yellow pus/blood, and I had mistakenly went to bed without any dressing over the wound...

This is what my boxers look like with the discharge. I wear almost exclusively boxer briefs to keep the dressing and/or mess as tidy as possible. As shown however, loose fitting boxers get covered in filth internally. In this case, I had just woken up, but sometimes this happens when I've just been sitting, and I don't feel the difference until I stand up. In fact, this is tame compared to some days. I've had three layers soak through, leaving visible wetness on the back of my pants within a matter of hours or less. Surely the discomfort of a wet and sticky asshole speaks for itself. The embarrassment of a visibly leaking butt on a semi-regular basis is another thing entirely.